There was a time when women used to sit by the phone and wait for a guy to call. Now we live in a hyper-communicative fog of tweets and texts. Which is great, right? Your guy can always reach you — by writing to you. The downside: he can always reach you by writing to you.
And that is also un-cool isn’t it? What happened to the good old-fashioned phone call, where you hear each other’s voices, laugh a little, maybe even exchange a little naughty talks? Here’s how to get your guy to be just a little more old-school…now and then.
Discipline
If you want to make your boyfriend call you more you’ve got to take a specific approach to the issue of telephone calls. You’ve got to make a vow to yourself that regardless of how much time has passed since he said he’d call, you won’t call him. This is one mistake that women make when they are in a relationship with a man. Even if they do get him on the phone they go in to a tirade about their feelings being hurt and him not being appreciative or respectful. Remember, you cannot bully a man for calling you more. It cannot work.
If you want to make your boyfriend call you more you’ve got to take a specific approach to the issue of telephone calls. You’ve got to make a vow to yourself that regardless of how much time has passed since he said he’d call, you won’t call him. This is one mistake that women make when they are in a relationship with a man. Even if they do get him on the phone they go in to a tirade about their feelings being hurt and him not being appreciative or respectful. Remember, you cannot bully a man for calling you more. It cannot work.
Encouragement
For a man, a phone call can be surprisingly daunting, especially considering all his other options like texts, E-Mails etc These days calling is practically a commitment. So when your man gives you a ring, don’t be afraid to gush a little. Go ahead, sound excited to hear from him. Let your guy hear your voice and your words how happy you are that he dialed your number.
For a man, a phone call can be surprisingly daunting, especially considering all his other options like texts, E-Mails etc These days calling is practically a commitment. So when your man gives you a ring, don’t be afraid to gush a little. Go ahead, sound excited to hear from him. Let your guy hear your voice and your words how happy you are that he dialed your number.
Duration
Keep the call to less than 10 minutes. Set a timer if you need to. Hey, never a bad thing to leave him wanting for more of you.
Keep the call to less than 10 minutes. Set a timer if you need to. Hey, never a bad thing to leave him wanting for more of you.
Know when to call
You may think that there’s no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they’ll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when is the perfect time to call him so that he’ll find you irresistible.
You may think that there’s no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they’ll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when is the perfect time to call him so that he’ll find you irresistible.
You don’t want to lose a chance with your man at a long-term commitment because of poor telephonic conversation. Be smart and just follow the steps. You will have a healthy and long term relationship.
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