Why is your boyfriend so rude?

If you are dating for quite some time now and you are enjoying a healthy relationship with your guy, nothing else matters as the world appears to be beautiful. But what if it is the other way round? Are you in a dating someone who is very rude to you? If this is the case with you then your relationship is far from being perfect. The more you try to be convincing the more he gets annoyed.

How rude?

Let us understand what are the reasons for your boyfriend to be so rude:

First question that you need to ask yourself is that is he really serious in a relationship? Most of the times this crucial point is often ignored and we stay in a stage of denial. If you think that he is not justifying it then perhaps it is the time to move on.

He might be playing with your feelings by being so unpredictable. He knows that the more he ignores you, the more it will affect you and keep you addicted to him.

It is also noticed that if the boys’ dad is not very good to his mother, then this trait is often imbibed by their son. Then you might have to pay the price for it.

He might also be using you for something else. This is frustratingly sad but if you feel that this is happening with you then there is no chance that he can be emotionally connected with you.

Quite likely he is bored with you. No matter what ever you try to make him be interested in you, this is not going to work.

He may be the most important part of your life. But to him, you may only be a small part of his evenings. If both your expectations in love don’t match, it’s hard to have a perfect relationship with each other.

If you have cheated on him and he gets to know about it then he might be taking a revenge on you.

He might be willing to break up with you. But since he doesn’t have the guts to say that he might be trying to create certain circumstances where you would dump him.

So if you are facing these challenges then it is high time to reconsider your relationship. The best way is to have a direct conversation with your boyfriend. If things get better then it is perfect and if it doesn’t work out then move on.