Online dating in India is picking up really fast. But it is not wrong to say that it is fairly a new concept. One of our blog posts talked about how to create an outstanding dating profile. Here we want you to educate on what not to ask while you are chatting with the potential dates in online dating sites especially in the first go.
When you are chatting for the first time, please try and avoid asking if he/she is dating someone. We know this topic needs to be discussed but initiating it in the beginning doesn’t leave a good impression. It should only be discussed once you guys reach a certain comfort level.
Tips for online dating chat
A common question which definitely should be avoided is to ask the person if he/she is looking out for a serious relationship. Common you are logged-in in an online dating site. Doesn’t it sound idiotic? Please maintain some posture and your dignity. If it has to happen then it has to happen.
Do you make enough money? This question sounds so fishy and dumb. Do you think the person at the receiving end will think good about you? Needless to explain this point further.
‘You know I love babies, what about you?’ Guys please act smarter. Try to make the conversation as interesting and open as possible. This question actually doesn’t leave any room for discussion.
Please do not act corny by asking something about the vital stats. This is very personal and need not be asked in the initial phase. Also refrain yourself from talking about the sexual matters.
Stop acting desperate by asking when are we chatting again. Take your time and give the person to think about the initial discussions that you two had. If things were fine you guys are bound to chat, the soonest.
‘So did you like our first interaction?’ It is not a survey going on and adding to it, sounds as if the chat was really planned. Isn’t it? So you need to avoid it.
To sum it up if you are a serious looker and communicate with the potential dates in the right manner that we have suggested, bingo you will hit the jack pot. It is all about the right time and a lot of patience. So don’t be desperate at all.
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