Online dating with Indian girls is a whacky affair. Ladies! become a pro by learning the art of online dating.
The trouble in online dating with Indian girls is the lack of know how. Internet dating involves certain etiquettes, certain rules and principles that most Indian women are unaware of. Subsequently, men are a little reluctant to date with Indian women online. In my vast experience at online dating, I’ve learned quite a few things about men and how they respond to me. Not everything I’ve done has received a positive response. I have turned-off men that genuinely seemed to be interested in me. But I’ve learned from my mistakes and now my focus in contacting men is based on the following:
Shut up about your problems and bad luck!
Nothing, and I mean NOTHING, will turn a guy off faster than a whiny girl. Every girl in this world has faced problems. In fact, every guy also deals with a heart break or other issues. Talk about this all the time, and the guy will soon put you on the ignore mode. Always be positive about your life. Have fun, enjoy, and learn to put your problems aside. I’m not saying that the guys are right in being emotionally closed up. You have every right to expect emotional support from your life partner, but hey! Don’t have that expectation from the first interaction. Give him some time to get to know you first.
Make him put in the effort!
Stop responding to men that aren’t willing to personalize their email messages to you, or do more than just send you a “wink”. Here is a sure shot way to know a guy’s earnestness. If the message they send you has nothing to do with your profile, chances are he copied and pasted it. He’s a douche bag. You’re better than that. Make him work to get your attention. You deserve a guy who is ready to fight for you, or maybe at least a guy who has the civility to read your online dating profile. Make him work to get to you and enjoy all the attention.
Don’t respond to rude men!
Your first response to an email should usually be short. Occasionally this irritates men. Since men think they’re God’s gift to women, they think we should send them a 20 page synopsis on how awesome they are. If he’s offended by your short response…DELETE! That’s right! You heard me. It is an art to get a guy chasing after you ladies. And every girl should be a pro at it. Online dating is no exception to the power of basic dating principles.
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