We all want to see ourselves with the right one with whom we can share both our good & bad times. But finding the right partner isn’t that easy.What complicates the situation most is that we ourselves are not very clear about what we are looking out for when we are seeking for the “right one” in our life.So it is imperative to chalk out the key elements that describe us & the partner, whom we would want to attract in our lives.
By following the steps that your Agony Aunt recommends, I am hopeful that you will take a step closer to finding your dream partner.
Dream Partner
Attributes
Take a pen & a piece of paper & start writing the key attributes that you think your partner MUST have.For instance, I want my partner to be loving, caring, beautiful & the list goes on.Do make a note that the attributes that you list, are the most important ones & are irreplaceable.This will help you get a clarity on the kind of partner that you covet.
Take a pen & a piece of paper & start writing the key attributes that you think your partner MUST have.For instance, I want my partner to be loving, caring, beautiful & the list goes on.Do make a note that the attributes that you list, are the most important ones & are irreplaceable.This will help you get a clarity on the kind of partner that you covet.
Physical Characteristics
Do physical characteristics matter to you? Well of course they do.Long or short hair, cute smile, height etc are some of the important characteristics that should be considered.
Do physical characteristics matter to you? Well of course they do.Long or short hair, cute smile, height etc are some of the important characteristics that should be considered.
Lifestyle
If you like to spend more time at home then there is no point of having someone who likes partying every night.There might be times when you would like to have a candle light dinner at home but your partner would want to go to an expensive restaurant. Would you be hurt? Yes, may be.You might end up feeling that the person does not care enough about your emotions and wishes. What I am trying to highlight, is that, the kind of life your partner leads may differ from yours which eventually might lead to difference of opinion, taking a toll on you. So, now you know, why both of your lifestyles should also match to a greater extent.
If you like to spend more time at home then there is no point of having someone who likes partying every night.There might be times when you would like to have a candle light dinner at home but your partner would want to go to an expensive restaurant. Would you be hurt? Yes, may be.You might end up feeling that the person does not care enough about your emotions and wishes. What I am trying to highlight, is that, the kind of life your partner leads may differ from yours which eventually might lead to difference of opinion, taking a toll on you. So, now you know, why both of your lifestyles should also match to a greater extent.
Qualifications
What kind of education do you think your partner should have? Do you want some one who is from the field of arts, music or working in a corporate.Try to answer these questions to yourself & find out.
What kind of education do you think your partner should have? Do you want some one who is from the field of arts, music or working in a corporate.Try to answer these questions to yourself & find out.
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