Did you say I love you too soon?

When you start dating someone and then eventually you may fall in love with the person. In that case it is very hard to hold yourself from saying those golden words. When the cupid strikes you, chances are you will be really excited and feel like expressing it right away.

But let us understand how by delaying a bit and waiting to say ‘I love you’ a while longer can help your love life getting much better.

When you start meeting each other, the excitement level is really high. Let it grow as that what makes falling in love even more exciting. If you propose someone very soon then the excitement of wondering what’s in each other’s minds would end really soon. So take your own time and enjoy the first phase.

There are people who jump into a new relationship immediately after going through a break up as they cannot stay single. They just love the idea of being in love all the time. And if this one of your traits then you have to change it as you will find yourself chasing people throughout your life instead of building that real love.

If you say ‘I love you’ and your date doesn’t reciprocate then you will be find it really awkward and eventually become frustrated. Wait for the right time till you are totally convinced about his/her feelings towards you.

If you say those magical words in the initial stages of your dating, then the other person may find it too difficult to believe it soon. Then the real meaning of the words actually fades away.

There are smitten lovers who will use these words just to cover up their insecurities so as to beat any competition. Just think for a while if this is the right thing to be done.

Even if both of you end up saying ‘I love you’ to each other too early just for the sake, there is a high probability that one may think it was not the right decision as love was never felt. He/she might feel stuck in a relationship. Do you really want that to happen? I am sure not.

Do take all these precautions when you have started seeing someone. The bottom line is if you really want a healthy relationship, than rather hurrying it up, prove your love by your actions and not by words.If the other person can feel it then you will hear it back from your date.